Often, we believe that our trails or situations are unique and incomparable, assuming that others cannot understand our struggles as they have not walked in our shoes. However, we are unaware of what occurs behind closed doors in other people's lives, leading us to perceive our own circumstances as unique or the most challenging.
As a therapist or a trusted friend, you often become aware of the happenings in other people's lives. They confide in you, revealing details that can either shock you or show you just how similar we all are.
Some individuals find themselves in marriages that lack happiness. Lady A is in a marriage where money is abundant, but unfortunately, their relationship is not a joyful one. Despite having financial wealth, where money grows on trees in their home, they do not share a bed or even a room. The lady experiences depression due to her husband's extended absences during business trips.
Lady B is happily married to a husband who adores her, takes care of her, supports her work, and even cooks for her. However, his job requires him to be away from home for weeks at a time, which leaves Lady B depressed when he is gone. When he is home, they find it challenging to adjust to sleeping in the same bed due to unfamiliarity with each other's snoring and movements during the night. Just as they start to get comfortable again, the husband has to leave home once more.
Lady C is trapped in a unhappy marriage. Despite both spouses being employed and spending time together daily, waking up and returning home together after work, her husband is oppressive. He dominates every aspect of their relationship and is also irreligious. In social settings, he shifts blame onto her for everything, while she remains silent and powerless, as any attempt to defend herself is met with his silencing tactics.
These three instances serve as mere illustrations of potential occurrences in the lives of others. It is crucial to bear in mind that we inhabit a flawed world where human beings commit sins. Our transgressions occur when we prioritize our own judgment over God's guidance as outlined in His Word, specifically the Bible. Acting according to our own understanding can lead to the aforementioned consequences.
Keep in mind that your circumstances are not unique. If you are feeling depressed or in need of emotional support, reach out to a therapist, psychologist, counselor, or a trusted friend. It's important not to conceal feelings of depression.
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