I’m diving deeper into the lives of residents in elderly homes. These upcoming stories will make you reflect on human nature and question the presence of politics within these communities.

I recently spoke with a 69-year-old lady who resides in an elderly home, and she shared an intriguing incident with me. Just last week, someone left a rude note on the chef’s car windshield, criticizing the quality of the meals prepared by the chef and her team, stating they no longer met their standards. It seems this didn’t sit well with the management, as they made an official announcement to all the residents addressing the incident. This kind of communication usually shows management’s concern and involvement in maintaining harmony within the community.

In the elderly home, the menu remains unchanged week after week, offering the same dishes consistently. I can understand why some residents might be unhappy with this routine. The lady who shared this incident with me doesn’t enjoy the meals because they don’t align with the flavors she grew up with, making her taste preferences different from most of the other residents. The current menu caters predominantly to a specific cultural group, but with the increasing diversity in the home, representing more than two cultural backgrounds, it’s clear that there’s people who aren’t happy with the set menu anymore.

People Are People

It’s natural that there will always be people who are dissatisfied with certain aspects of their lives, whether it be situations, people, or other factors. Some people may not know the best way to voice their complaints, choosing to address the wrong person or venting openly instead of bringing concerns to management. We often expect elderly people to be kind and heartwarming, but it’s important to remember that they are just like anyone else. Among them, some are rude, some are friendly. Some are patient, while others are not. Some enjoy company, while others prefer solitude. Regardless of age, everyone has their flaws and shortcomings, reminding us that we all fall short of the glory of God.

Sometimes elderly people or our parents who stay in elderly homes, tell us stories like these and then we don’t believe them because it sounds more like fiction than real life. But next time your friend or parent who live in an elderly home tells you something about the people there or staff, listen up, they might just need your help.